Healing past hurts through life's little lessons

I read an article this morning that resonated deeply with me. I am all for self assessment and reflection as a means of improving my life; in particular my headspace.


Through the heartache of the last five years, I have come to see that, in life, the same test will resurface and continue to do so, until you pass it.

So, with this in mind, it is time for me to look at my life through a different lens. It is time to see what I am not learning so I can stop retracing the same steps over and over.

I cannot control other people. I cannot make them love me. I cannot, no matter how much I want it, make people treat me the way I treat them.

That is the lesson. Right there. In black and white. LEARN IT YOU STUPID BIATCH!