I've worn hand-me-down clothes for over a decade. As such, I am now in the process of learning what I like and building up my wardrobe. You'd think someone in their mid thirties would know what they like! However, when decisions have been made for you it can be a process of trial and error to discover things that have been lost.
I see this as a great opportunity. I am not boxed into anything. I am free to make my own choices and I don't have anyone steering my them. I get to explore what I like and experiment without worrying about impressing anyone or living up to their expectations. If people don't like what I choose they are not obliged to hang out with me. I don't have to worry that someone will nay say my selection; such is the freedom that comes from being alone.
The beauty is that is it not just clothes - I get to experiment with shoes, jewellery and make up. I get to trial food, drinks, movies, TV shows and music. And no one else gets a say. No one has the power to dictate my choices. So if I want to wear a skirt on a wintery day, I will. If I feel like eating just dessert then I will skip the main course. If I want to wear a printed tshirt then that is what I will do.
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