Meeting Mans

I had a session with a dating coach recently (see Ignite Mr Right). It was enlightening and more than a little depressing.

Camille suggested I redefine myself and develop an alter ego to aim towards (psychobabble for "you're fucked up and need to change everything about yourself"). So, meet Mans. She's smart, funny, confident, content, fun, relaxed, fit, healthy and energetic. She's not needy or self conscious or insecure.Mans adores her children and loves her family. She is sexy and full of mischief.  She's not sad or lonely or stressed. She's not scared or scarred or damaged. Mans is beautiful, well groomed and stylish. She lightens the room when she walks in. She is bubbly and interesting. She is a strong in conversations and is entertaining. She dances like a pro and drinks like a fish. She smiles frequently and from the heart. She is not cynical or bitter. She is a patient mother. She's creative and rich. Mans is loyal and generous.